serendipity

Beberapa kenangan kita lupakan dan beberapa kita simpan dalam pikiran. Arti, nilai, dan perasaan serta emosi terlibat pada suatu masa atau peristiwa. Masa yang disimpan dalam pikiran dan melibatkan emosi, rasa yang kuat seringkali tersimpan dalam pikiran bawah sadar.

Hal ini yang membuat beberapa orang tidak bisa melepaskan masa lalu, bahkan hidup dalam ilusi masa lalu. Keinginan untuk memendam dan kenyamanan mengingat kenangan masa lalu membuat masa lalu semakin kuat dalam alam bawah sadar. Hampir seperti suatu kebiasaan yang telah melekat dalam diri tanpa disadari. Apakah kenangan itu baik atau buruk, itu sama saja. Ia akan tersimpan jika diperkuat dengan emosi, entah itu diungkapkan dalam kesedihan maupun rasa senang.

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do you really live today or yesterday or tomorrow?

where r u really are?

some people live in their past time..how come? yeah, it’s true..they always regret to all the things happen in their past and hope they can go back at the time to repair or say different things that they are really sure it could make everything different. fiuh…

do u know it’s really tiring if u always think about past times, instead u get sad and poorly. whether ur past time is good or bad, it’s gone! don’t be spoiled child or it will kill u! yeah, memories are playing in ur mind..it’s like noisy monkey if let them take ur mind’s control.

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Ilhami di awal fajar menyingsing Jangkrik-jangkrik tak rela pergi sesudah persenggamaan di kamar tidurmu

this is a true story which happened in the states. a man came out of his home to admire his new truck. to his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. the man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. when the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. when the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, ” daddy,I’m sorry about your truck.” then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?” the father went home & committed suicide.

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wiseman said that a thing that makes a big different is attitude.

why attitude?have you ever heard a story that aa’ gym told in a tv programme. someone with a mouse in the narrow room and it could make you scream and jump to a chair. but seeing a mouse in the large room won’t make you shock, right?mouse hereinafter called problem, is it a big or small things depends on your attitude.

a book said      ‘ attitude is from your habit ’               

                       ‘ habit is from your behaviour ’                 

                       ‘ behaviour is from your mind ’                       

                        ‘ mind is from your words ’                       

                    ‘ words is from what you learned ’

it means every people has different attitude accordance with their knowledge. unfortunately, many people stop learning when they finished their study at school and problems keep come to them.  

well… i have a great story for you to read, it’s only a serendipity.

 attitude is everything by francie baltazar-schwartz

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kesabaran itu ada batasnya, benarkah demikian? jika batasan itu telah ditetapkan, apa arti kata ‘kesabaran’ sebenarnya?… mungkin cuma sebagai kata pengganti ‘terima aja apa adanya’..

kebanyakan orang melihat kesabaran adalah sebuah kelemahan karna orang yang sabar menurut mereka cenderung diinjak-injak, disakiti dan teraniaya.

alkisah nabi kita muhammad saw, mempunyai kesabaran tingkat tinggi.. dan emang benar beliau sering dianiaya hampir di sepanjang perjalanan hidupnya. bahkan dapat dikatakan kesabaran beliau tidak ada batasnya….sebab orang-orang yang pernah menyakitinya selalu dimaafkannya, bahkan sebelum mereka meminta maaf…beliau pun mendoakan agar orang-orang itu diampuni dan diberi petunjuk..subhanallah!

mengapa nabi muhammad bisa begitu sabar?

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